Treat Every Relationship As If It Is Your Last One

From the very beginning, girl's family objected strongly on her
dating this guy, saying that it has got to do with family
background, & that the girl will have to suffer for the rest of her life if she
were to be with him.

Due to family's pressure, the couple quarreled very often. Though
the girl loved the guy deeply, she always asked him: "How deep is your
love for me?" As the guy is not good with his words, this often caused
the girl to be very upset. With that & the family's pressure, the girl
often vents her anger on him. As for him, he only endured it in
silence.

After a couple of years, the guy finally graduated & decided to
further his studies overseas. Before leaving, he proposed to the
girl:

"I'm not very good with words. But all I know is that I love you.
If you allow me, I will take care of you for the rest of my life. As
for your family, I'll try my best to talk them round. Will you marry
me?" The girl agreed, & with the guy's determination, the family finally
gave in & agreed to let them get married. So before he left, they
got engaged. The girl went out to the working society, whereas the guy
was overseas, continuing his studies. They sent their love through
emails & phone calls. Though it was hard, but both never thought of giving
up.

One day, while the girl was on her way to work, she was knocked
down by a car that lost control. when she woke up, she saw her parents
beside her bed. She realized that she was badly injured. Seeing her
mum crying, she wanted to comfort her. But she realized that all
that could come out of her mouth was just a sigh. she had lost her
voice....

The doctor says that the impact on her brain has caused her to lose
her voice. Listening to her parents' comfort, but with nothing
coming out from her, she broke down. During the stay in hospital, besides
silence cry,..it's still just silence cry that accompanied her.

Upon reaching home, everything seems to be the same. Except for the
ringing tone of the phone. Which pierced into her heart everytime it rang.

She does not wish to let the guy know & not wanting to be a burden to
him, she wrote a letter to him saying that she does not wish to wait any
longer.

With that, she sent the ring back to him. In return, the guy sent
millions & millions of reply, countless of phonecalls,. . all the
girl could do, besides crying, is still crying.... The parents decided
to move away, hoping that she could eventually forget everything & be
happy.

With a new environment, the girl learns sign language & started a
new life. Telling herself everyday that she must forget the guy. One
day, her friend came & told her that he's back. She asked her friend not
to let him know what happened to her. Since then, there wasn't anymore
news of him.

A year has passed & her friend came with an envelope, containing a
invitation card for the guy's wedding. The girl was shattered. When
she open the letter, she saw her name in it instead. When she was
about to ask her friend what's going on, she saw the guy standing
in front of her.

He used sign language to tell her "I've spent a year to learn sign
language. Just to let you know that I've not forgotten our promise.
Let me have the chance to be your voice. I Love You." With that, he
slipped the ring back into her finger. The girl finally smiled.

Treat every relationship as if it's the last one, then you'll know
how to Give. Treat every moment as is it's the last day, then you'll
know how to treasure.

Treasure what you have right now, or else you will
regret one day...

The Other Side

A father was reading his favourite magazine and his little daughter every now and then distracted him. Trying to keep her daughter busy,he tore out one page on which was printed the map of the world. He then tore the page into pieces and asked her to go to her room and put them together to make the map again.
Having done this, the father was now convinced he would read his magazine without any disturbance and also that it would take her daughter the whole day to get it done.
But the little one came back within two minutes with the perfect map…………
The curious and confused father asked her daughter how she could do it so quickly??
She giggled and said , "Oh…Dad, there is lord Ganesha's face on the other side of the paper, I made His face perfect to get the map right." Satisfied with the answer, she ran outside to play leaving the father surprised...

Moral of the story:

In life there is always the other side to whatever you experience.
When ever we come across a challenge or puzzling situation,look at the other side, you will be surprised to see an easy way to tackle the problem..

Face Difficulties Positively

Read This Story If you are Feeling Hopeless ♥

This parable is told of a farmer who owned an old mule. The mule fell into the farmer’s well. The farmer heard the mule praying or whatever mules do when they fall into wells. After carefully assessing the situation, the farmer sympathized with the mule, but decided that neither the mule nor the well was worth the trouble of saving. Instead, he called his neighbors together, told them what had happened, and enlisted them to help haul dirt to bury the old mule in the well and put him out of his misery.

Initially the old mule was hysterical! But as the farmer and his neighbors continued shoveling and the dirt hit his back, a thought struck him. It suddenly dawned on him that every time a shovel load of dirt landed on his back, HE WOULD SHAKE IT OFF AND STEP UP!

This he did, blow after blow. “Shake it off and step up…shake it off and step up…shake it off and step up!” He repeated to encourage himself. No matter how painful the blows, or how distressing the situation seemed, the old mule fought panic and just kept right on SHAKING IT OFF AND STEPPING UP!

It wasn’t long before the old mule, battered and exhausted, stepped triumphantly over the wall of that well! What seemed like it would bury him actually helped him . . . all because of the manner in which he handled his adversity.

Moral- THAT’S LIFE! If we face our problems and respond to them positively, and refuse to give in to panic, bitterness, or self-pity... ♥

If you want to walk far, walk together

Death asked Life :
Why does everyone love you and hate me.
Life replied :
Because I am a beautiful Lie and you are painful Truth

A Lovely Logic for a beautiful Life
Never try to maintain relations in your life Just try to maintain life in your relations

3 stages of Life:
Teen Age – Has time & energy – But no Money Working Age – Has Money & Energy – But No Time Old Age – Has Money & Time – But No Energy

We are very good Lawyers for our mistakes; and very good Judges for others` mistakes

World always say – Find good people and leave bad ones.
But I say, Find the good in people and ignore the bad in them Because No one is born perfect

A fantastic sentence written on every Japanese bus stop.
Only buses will stop here – Not your time So Keep walking towards your goal

Negative Thinkers focus on Problems
Positive thinkers focus on Solutions

Never hold your head high with pride or ego.
Even the winner of a gold medal gets his/her medal only when he bows his head down

Define TODAY
This is an Opportunity to Do A work better than Yesterday

African Saying:
If you want to walk quick, walk alone
If you want to walk far, walk together

Confident Quote:
I have not failed.
My success is just postponed.

Entire water in the ocean can never sink a ship Unless it gets inside.
All the pressures of life can never hurt you unless you let it in.

Success is Failure Turned Inside Out

When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,
When the road you’re trudging seems all uphill,
When the funds are low and the debts are high,
And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,
When care is pressing you down a bit,
Rest, if you must, but don’t you quit.

Life is queer with its twists and turns,
As every one of us sometimes learns,
And many a failure turns about,
When he might have won had he stuck it out;
Don’t give up though the pace seems slow—
You may succeed with another blow.

Often the goal is nearer than,
It seems to a faint and faltering man,
Often the struggler has given up,
When he might have captured the victor’s cup,
And he learned too late when the night slipped down,
How close he was to the golden crown.

Success is failure turned inside out—
The silver tint of the clouds of doubt,
And you never can tell how close you are,
It may be near when it seems so far,
So stick to the fight when you’re hardest hit—
It’s when things seem worst that you must not quit.

Loneliness and the Psychological Perspective

They say one is the loneliest number and we all have times when we feel alone. We reach a point in time when we feel that one is the only number within our lives and feel that the only way to accomplish the goals and dreams we set for ourselves is achieved that way as an expedition of one to achieving what we feel at the time is the impossible.

We set out to face our problems on our own, confident in feeling we need to accomplish without the support of anyone else. We constantly struggle with the task at hand, facing many hardships and believe that in overcoming each obstacle to the task at hand is the only way to succeed. At times this is true…...which makes the triumphant victory of success that much sweeter.

But there are times when we need help...when doing it alone and struggling against the odds is more of an ends to defeat and disappointment and abandoning dreams, leaving them and one unfulfilled. And time is not limitless, and as more time passes and frustration turns to self-doubt of hopes for success we more than not surrender to defeat and abandon our dreams.

If the dream is worth obtaining, there is no shame in looking to others and asking for help. Dreams don’t simply die…for they are killed off by those who first dreamt them in the first place.

Asking for help is not a sign of weakness, but a sign of strength of one’s convictions. And when it’s offered, remember not to be ashamed of accepting it or thinking they didn’t believe in you to doing it on your own. Rather look at it as what it’s meant to be, a sign that they believed in you and proud that you looked for help in achieving your dream…rather than surrendering it.

The Impossible and the Truth

The impossible may seem distant, just too hard, and not possible. That is why it is tagged "impossible" but with every great success is a tag "possible and done!"
It is in the doing that we find the possible. It is when we do nothing that it stays impossible, at least until someone else comes along and takes our "impossible" and makes it possible for them.
We miss out when we don't try. When we try we find out. Be a doer and try.
Nothing is too hard for God. With God behind you nothing is too hard for you. Believe, have faith, use your courage, think positive, it will work out.
But be sure to be humble and honest in anything you do that God guides you to. God requires your heart felt honesty and love and everything will turn out alright.